Most comfortable couples tend to forget that flirting plays a vital role in maintaining a long term relationship. Express your desire, lust and attraction for your partner through gestures, facial expressions and surprise signs of affection.
Flirtatious foreplay
Surprise your partner with sexy lingerie and extended foreplay. Be affectionate and take the time to set a romantic mood. Laura Berman, PhD, Author of LOVING SEX... THE BOOK OF JOY AND PASSION states "The of Flirtatious foreplay beauty is that it always feels new. The rush of adrenaline, the warmth of arousal, the longed-for caress of lips and hands—it all represents the very best part of lovemaking. In foreplay, we find that thrill of connection, that mix of intimacy and passion that revitalizes our relationships time and time again."
Sexual Attractiveness
Most men and women don't make an effort to look good, as they are so caught up in their busy schedules, they may completely neglect their appearance. Not making an effort to look sexually attractive, might give your partner a wrong message that you don't want to entice him or her anymore.
Sensual Touch
Offering your significant other a warm bath and relaxing sensual massage can be a perfect end to a stressful day.
"Subtle physical gestures are some of the biggest turn-ons for both men and women, so don’t forget to incorporate these into your date night. Tailor your flirtation to your partner’s personality and needs (for example, physical advances work well with men; emotional ones with women). Women, smile into your partner’s eyes, lick your lips, play with your hair, or cross and uncross your legs seductively. Men, remember to pull out your partner’s chair, hold the door for her, and place your hand at the small of her back as you walk through the restaurant. Gestures like these will feel intimate and protective, and will bring her back to those early days when even these innocent touches would spark desire." says Laura Berman, PhD.
Reference source: Laura Berman, PhD, Author of LOVING SEX... THE BOOK OF JOY AND PASSION
Website: http://www.drlauraberman.com
Sex in a loving relationship can be the deepest and most meaningful experience a couple can share and yet many couples find themselves too time starved and intimacy shy to enjoy it.Helping couples to overcome these barriers, Loving Sex offers friendly, frank exploration of what sex means as part of a loving relationship, and how you and your partner can experience it to its full potential.
Written by New York Times bestselling author Dr. Laura Berman, Loving Sex explores a different aspect of sexuality, from the anatomy and physicality of arousal and orgasm, to the psychology of lust, love, and partnership. Free from unrealistic media representations of perfect bodies and pornstar practices, Loving Sex shows you the positions that work, helps resolve common problems without blame or embarrassment, and explains just how important sex can be to long-term loving happiness.
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